From teenage dream to viral nightmare: Eiza’s debut that no one told her
Ah, 17 years old. That magical age when Eiza González should have been worried about choosing her outfit for the homecoming or what meme to upload to her MySpace (yes, we’re old). But not. The Mexican was too busy starring in her first soap opera and, incidentally, receiving a masterclass in resilience 101 thanks to the haters of Internet 1.0.
“Lola, once upon a time… a lot of hate comments”
Imagine: you wake up excited after your big night like Lola Valente, ready to read the praise on Twitter (now X, because Elon decided so). But instead, you find half of Mexico giving their opinion about your weight, your face, and your talent with the delicacy of a 4chan troll. “Ugh, she’s so ugly, she’s so fat,” the presenters said. Because of course, what better way to start the day than with bullying in prime time?
And so, what should have been their Disney Channel moment became a Black Mirror episode. “I felt ashamed of myself,” Eiza confessed on Jesse Tyler Ferguson’s podcast (yes, the Modern Family one, because the universe loves awkward crossovers).
But wait, there’s more. Because if the media harassment were not enough, life threw him a plot twist worthy of a soap opera: the loss of his father. So, between smiling for the cameras and crying in the bathroom on set, Eiza became a master of emotional multitasking.
From “it is never enough” to “I am enough” (with therapy involved)
This is where things get real. Because we are not talking about a character, but about a girl who internalized every comment until she believed that she would never be good enough. “I lost myself… I was cruel to myself,” she admitted. And be careful, this is not a Netflix drama: it is the harsh reality of growing up under the public microscope, where your self-esteem is a trending topic and your mental health takes a back seat.
But (there’s always a but), today’s Eiza could give her teenage self a kind of empowerment. Although wounds don’t disappear like Instagram stories, she has learned to cope with the weight of fame without letting it define her. “It marks you for life,” he acknowledges, but he also knows that its value does not depend on the likes or the comments of people who probably still use Internet Explorer.
Moral? That behind the glitz and glamor there is an industry that devours self-esteem as if they were tacos al pastor. But Eiza, like any self-respecting millennial heroine, is writing her own happy ending (with therapy, boundaries and probably a good Bad Bunny playlist).
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